How to Show Up For Yourself

• Commit to your goals, habits, and practices. If you make a promise to yourself, hold onto it. This is the most effective way of building solid-self-confidence, self-trust and becoming a magnet for the right people and beautiful opportunities.
• Listen to your intuition. Trust your inner guidance, which directs you towards your highest good and shields you from potential dramas. Your gut already knows the outcome. Do the right thing.
• Be authentic about your emotions. Embrace the full spectrum of feelings and communicate your needs clearly. Wisely set boundaries and don’t be afraid to say no to others… and say “no” more often.
• Practice unapologetic self-forgiveness and be generous about forgiving others. You don’t deserve to hold onto any negative emotions and live with the burden or resistance. The past is the past is the past and it’s your responsibility to move on in order to create a beautiful life experience for yourself, now.
• Prioritize your well-being. Your self-care and mental and physical health should always be on a pedestal. Don’t give anyone the privilege to make you feel bad about yourself or to affect your state of being in a negative way. If we don’t prioritize health, we will be forced to…
• Give yourself permission to rest, to take breaks, and to have downtime. Be compassionate towards yourself and your humanity (my biggest struggle).
• Accept yourself the way you are right now in this moment. Trust that all is rigged in your favor and you are exactly where you need to be.
• Focus on yourself. It’s not your responsibility to meet anyone’s expectations or to make anyone happy. Don’t mess with other people’s karma and accept others the way they are without projecting any limited beliefs on them. You can control only yourself and each time you put anyone outside of yourself on a pedestal — you will quickly be reminded that others and their life are none of your business.
• Be unapologetic about what you want and who you are. Don’t compromise for less and always keep your standards high (starting from yourself and the way you show up in life).

It may just be me… but I feel like many people I meet are ‘showing up for others.’ Meaning, they are there to fulfill some function or some role, but their heart isn’t in it.

I’m always impressed by those that full-send life. Life is electric! Life is amazing! We have the opportunity to DO and BE! If only for self-respect, bring your best.

I find that the greatest opportunities open up when we’re fully living.

Stay the course. I’m rooting for you.

All the best,
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