MASTER your EMOTIONS - You Never Have to Act on How You FEEL! 3 TIPS to STFU! - 026

Because thoughtful people make good decisions and good decisions don't make for good drama Let me fuck can you imagine a TV show called making the right decisions where the entire half hour is everyone in that show It's constantly making really good decisions for their lives and almost no ridiculous unnecessary drama Emerges they're they're all of them are just fucking leveling up and every scene is them just working hard on themselves and working hard on their projects You'd be like where's the drama nothing's happening I've built many startups most of them a fail so Bitcoin is exactly the place that I like to be we're gonna end it right there Oh Romeo and Julian this is not a story in that I need to describe to you in full detail You already know how the story goes and you also know how the story ends It's

not one of those stories that Really has a happy ending now this is the movie the quintessential movie that comes to my mind whenever I think about People who are completely out of control of their emotions like This movie is the quintessential movie of men women children really men and women and children Because all that main characters are basically children, but even the adults everyone's out of control This this movie and this movie could not have come out here's a here's something meta for you guys This movie could not have come out at a better time Romeo and Juliet in terms of the movie with Leonardo de caprio came out in 1996 now I was still living in Japan then and You know all the girls were just swooning over this Leo Leonardo de caprio Oh, you know de caprio. Oh He was so sexual

and the kiss I remember I remember girls like talking about how how What's her I forgot her name I forgot her name what the what the ladies Actresses name, but anyway, I remember how all the girls in school were all talking about how unfair it was How unfair it was that that ugly-ass bitch got to kiss the most handsome Namja the most handsome Man or boy really is boy man child On the planet Leonardo de caprio This is this is a Ridiculous movie one of my favorite scenes at the height of Of Emotionality is when Mercutio if you remember when Mercutio they're out at the beach The winds kicking up the the the the the scene is getting gloomy Mercutio is out there with with Leo Romeo and with Tivel right and Mercutio and Tivel they're fighting and Romeo is trying to try to get

them to stop fighting any any poles and he grabs Mercutio his friend He says man you need to stop fighting and Tivel takes this opportunity and like shanks them Shanks them in beside Now any of you guys Harkening back to this movie and Harkening back to this experience back in the mid 90s With Leonardo de caprio and Romeo and Juliet will remember what Mercutio said As he was holding his side bleeding profusely from his side what does he say he says a curse on both your houses A curse on both your houses and Tivel runs away and of course Leonardo de caprio Romeo runs after him and guns him down in cold blood Guys if this wasn't a quintessential movie of absolute passion in 1996 I don't know what it was it was a movie of passions Fuck everyone dies everyone burns. I mean Romeo

was holding his side bleeding profusely from his side what does he say he says a curse on both your houses A curse on both your houses and Tivel runs away and of course Leonardo de caprio Romeo runs after him and guns him down in cold blood Guys if this wasn't a quintessential movie of absolute passion in 1996 I don't know what it was it was a movie of passions Fuck everyone dies everyone burns. I mean Romeo dies Juliet dies Mercutio dies Tivel the all the friends and the parents are left there's dumbfounded as to what has happened You see Romeo and Juliet in the mid 90s With Leonardo de caprio was a perfect movie a perfect movie for the times let's get meta This was pre 9 11. This is when consumerism was beginning to grow The traditional values are being eroded day by day

multimedia MTV is only growing We we we we clearly see that the programming of the 90s the programming of the 90s and the programming of the early 2000s what that what that programming had on society in terms of music TVs TV movies. I mean let's just be honest since 1996 with Romeo and Juliet till today has not TV movies music got even more cruder Even more vile This was the rise of MTV and reality shows We didn't have torquing in the 90s. We didn't have any of the overly sexually stimulated Brains in the 90s you know why because we didn't have cell phones we didn't have mobile devices We didn't have active stimuli in our brains Romeo and Juliet was the best example of complete Emotionality And and acting on every single emotion you could possibly conjure up Because of the 90s in the early

2000s we have now a rise of emotional action emotional Emotional everything right we we now have the rise of the YouTube the rise of cult personality where everyone can be a star Right, you know what the secret formula is today the secret formula of today to be successful in the YouTube land in the YouTube world of anyone can be a star This the secret to success is being more wild more outlandish more perverse more vile Then anyone else Right and what is it at its base? What is today's entertainment at its base? Let your emotions guide the action That's it let your emotions guide the action and that makes for the best forms of entertainment Let's be honest desperate housewives real housewives of Atlanta Reus real housewives of filling the blank is that show is that entire show? not is it Isn't it just a

show about emotions about people who are just acting on every single fucking emotion possible from love sex dating money heartbreak Stabbing people in the back talking shit. It's all emotion In many ways I would say that my content My content is the antithesis of pop culture why? Because it requires you to sit down It requires you to listen it requires you to take account of your life It requires you to be introspective and maybe just maybe it requires you to be thoughtful wow novel idea. I know You see a peer what are we talking about today? Oh? You see one of my jobs as a father is to always remind my kids never they never have to act on their emotions That's one of my jobs one of my jobs to remind my kids is to master their emotions to manage their emotions that they

It requires you to be introspective and maybe just maybe it requires you to be thoughtful wow novel idea. I know You see a peer what are we talking about today? Oh? You see one of my jobs as a father is to always remind my kids never they never have to act on their emotions That's one of my jobs one of my jobs to remind my kids is to master their emotions to manage their emotions that they never have to act on how they feel That only makes for good TV and movies You want to know why TV movies and entertainment is show entertaining? It's because no one on those shows has any personal responsibility No one on those shows ever takes account of how their emotions affect their actions if everyone in every TV show and If everyone in every movie was thoughtful Then there

would be no movies there would be no TV shows Because thoughtful people make good decisions and good decisions don't make for good drama Let me fuck can you imagine a TV show called making the right decisions where the entire half hour is everyone in that show It's constantly making really good decisions for their lives and almost no ridiculous unnecessary drama Emerges they're they're all of them are just fucking leveling up and every scene is them just working hard on themselves and working hard on their projects You'd be like where's the drama nothing's happening But here's the here's what's so ironic is that if you had a TV show of 10 different people who are constantly working on themselves Improving themselves improving their lives improving their hustle improving their position their station in life And you look at and say fucking nothing's happening. That's right Because

self-improvement is fucking boring grinding hard as boring Everything that you see on Instagram everything that you see on Facebook and Twitter are the highlight reels of a ridiculously boring lifestyle of a man or woman who has a passion to grind out a future that they're sick and tired of talking about and they want to do it Look This is right. This is why we don't watch TV because we don't watch we don't we don't want our kids to take from the social cues of retarded people Right, I now I'll make this fundamentally clear and if this is my opinion and I might I may be wrong, but it's my opinion There's a very They're very easy direct correlation to increase TV consumption and emotional decision making Let me put it a different way the more that you consume television programming which is programming your mind

The more that you consume television the more that you make emotional decisions You know one of the best ways to see this have kids Why because you will clearly be able to see the difference between kids who are raised by parents and kids who are raised by media Let me say that again for all of you parents out there Okay, my kids are not raised by media easy and It's unfortunate, but because my kids aren't raised by media. It is so easy for me to see other kids who are Because their emotions are unchecked They take examples and cues from the media on YouTube and TV and movies that they see And in movies that they see TV that they see YouTube that they see they see a bunch of knuckleheads who constantly never Are thoughtful about how their emotions guide their decisions Now certainly

easy and It's unfortunate, but because my kids aren't raised by media. It is so easy for me to see other kids who are Because their emotions are unchecked They take examples and cues from the media on YouTube and TV and movies that they see And in movies that they see TV that they see YouTube that they see they see a bunch of knuckleheads who constantly never Are thoughtful about how their emotions guide their decisions Now certainly that makes for great drama It makes for great drama Soitantly But that makes for a terrible terrible life And I'll say this and I'll say it once When it is fundamentally clear That kids are not raised by parents but raised by media I'm calling out all of you guys parents. It's your fucking fault It's your fault you're fucking up your kids You know why because you're not

raising your kids you're letting the TV raise your kids Three things let's get into it guys when it comes to mastering your emotions This is something that's so crucial. I'll be honest with you the most successful people on the planet have mastered their emotions They don't react they respond they don't react Reaction is emotional based respond responding to a situation is being thoughtful We all know that we make our best decisions when we're highly emotional right guys mmm Let's get into it. These are the three things that I talked to my kids about almost monthly Easily monthly maybe twice a month depending on how they poorly allow their decisions to guide their Their emotions to guide their decisions Number one emotions can't be controlled initially you need to recognize Your emotion hit the fucking pause button That's how I do it with my kids because

my kids are young my kids enjoy playing video games I gave them an awesome video game For their Nintendo switch called toejam and url. It's the reboot finally. I love this game It's the best. I play toejam and url on sega back in the day I gave it to them this rebooted they love it I always have to tell them to hit pause you know why because when they're playing together this game They get frustrated with each other one of the guys you know one one one one one so a lot of the time one guy would Drop off the map and then it'll go into split screen and then they can't figure out where each other And then they got pissed at each other. I tell them to hit the pause button that's step one When emotions rise pause hit the pause button toejam

and url stop Collaborate and listen pause Pause you don't have to respond you don't have to react When shit gets wack when emotions get rise pause pause pause Recognize the emotion rise anger frustration Discontent whatever it is pause Number two recognize why you feel that way So it's very simple for my kids. I tell them number one pause number two ask the question why Why ask yourself why and you want to know 99% Of what happens when I see my kids fighting and I tell them the pause and I look at both of them. I say why They know where I'm going I'm asking them the short form version of why are you going to why are you feeling this way? I you know 99% of their time they respond it goes like this. I feel like Thank you welcome to millennial generation the millennial

why and you want to know 99% Of what happens when I see my kids fighting and I tell them the pause and I look at both of them. I say why They know where I'm going I'm asking them the short form version of why are you going to why are you feeling this way? I you know 99% of their time they respond it goes like this. I feel like Thank you welcome to millennial generation the millennial generation they start everything with I feel like Okay, well that's a terrible thing to base your life on because your feelings are fleeting Your feelings change and your feelings aren't real Though they are real, but they're they're terrible as a basis and foundation for making logical and rational decisions my friend Now that you are highly aware of this now listen to a millennial talk Listen to a

millen a younger generation Individual someone who was raised not by parents, but raised by media Listen to how they phrase things in life. They generally start off with the words I feel like and then you know they're done Recognize why you know my kids say they say I feel like it's unfair I feel like he's not doing I feel like she's not doing I feel like I feel like I feel like yeah I know there's an unmet expectation. There's an unmet emotional need sawi I'm sorry that's rising up in your gut. I'm sorry you feel that way But you do not have to react you do not have to act on how you feel pause Pause Why do you feel that way? Oh? I feel like okay you feel good you want to let that feeling pass or do you like to react to it

and make shit worse Number three, what is the positive response? This was easy for you guys to probably guess right? I'm all about good judu. I'm all about positive thinking why would I ever want anything negative To come into myself or my family unit no way Jose not happening Number one pause number two. Why do you feel that way? Number three What's the positive response? What's the positive response you know what happens once I remind my children What the what hey? Well, I say what's the positive response? You know what happens 99% of the time they shut the fuck up Because they're so emotionally encapsulated. They're so emotionally controlled at that moment that that that they no longer have any decision making ability they have no rational tank left. It's empty. They're gone You know what they end up doing they just shut the fuck

up and sit there and they let the emotion pass And I love moments like this. Do you know why? Because those moments I can gently remind my children that whenever your emotions rise 99% of the time shut in the fuck up and say nothing It's generally the best thing to do every time From there if we're lucky we can help refocus them my kids to something else Just exit if possible, but reminding them that they always have a choice as to how they respond You see one of the reasons why you're not successful One of the reasons why I'm not as successful as I could be one of the reasons why you're not where you want to be One of the reasons why other people aren't where they want to be I'm just going to call out everybody with one of the reasons why everybody

Just exit if possible, but reminding them that they always have a choice as to how they respond You see one of the reasons why you're not successful One of the reasons why I'm not as successful as I could be one of the reasons why you're not where you want to be One of the reasons why other people aren't where they want to be I'm just going to call out everybody with one of the reasons why everybody in the world Is not where they want to be is because they haven't mastered their emotions Or at least master their emotions to a level that is beneficial to them Sometimes mastering emotions just means just calm and down And realizing life isn't that bad real life realize that we're still on this plane still unmovable Right nothing's happening guys nothing's happening Think about it Master your emotions why

people aren't successful today It's because they can't master their emotions. They feel like they get they have to respond it to everything react to everything No, you don't you know the worst is The worst is people who react to what's on the TV? Have I ever talked about that enough in this episode? Are you reacting to the TV? Are you reacting to movies? Are you reacting to media? Are you reacting to the news? None of that is real None of that is real If you let the TV control your emotions for the day in the reality that you actually have to live in Godly you are an Unbaked Person you have not fully baked you need to go back in the womb you need to go get baked again Get mature manage your fucking emotions. I can't tell you how many Man child Man childs

I meet brothers who are just as old as me near damn fucking 40 and still act like children can't manage their emotions Fuck it's why you poor bro. That's why you're poor Anyway number one Pause whenever something's rising up and you're got pause fucking pause recognize why do you feel that way? You feel that way because oh unmet need unmet expectation good pause sitting it You don't have to react What's the positive response generally just shutting the fuck up and moving on So here's the question for you guys today when it comes to mastering your emotions I think it's a good reminder that we all need to master our emotions all the time What do you? Yeah, let me let us know in the comments below if if you're willing to write it What did today? What do you need to chill the fuck out

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