Never Take Other's SH*T Serious - It's Always Their Own Internal Racket! - Stay Positive! - 068

Guys this man and okay, he might sound like I'm being judgmental here But guys I will tell you he he looked in a moment in just a moment And we all probably look like this in a moment of time, but he looked in that moment like a man defeated He looked like a man defeated you know and and and and and he's just communicating through that pain He's picking up the fucking cat litter guys I Built many startups most of them a fail so Bitcoin is exactly in the place that I like to be we're gonna end it right there All right, what's up guys? I just have to put this one down Right now because something just happened to me a situation guys a situation just happened to me on my way home and I just well actually was on the way to something

but I just came home But I just had to talk about it guys and this was actually something that I wanted to talk about for a while It's this idea, okay, it's this idea of never taking shit Personally like Seriously and and I know I've talked about this or Kind of talked around to this maybe a couple of times in previous podcasts and previous shows of sorts But guys I just want to focus down on this because this was actually in my notes and I had a whole bunch of notes And I got a whole bunch of notes here About this that I want to discuss with you guys and today is the day my friends today is the day Never take shit personally from anyone ever period Now why does this need to be reminded to us? Why does this need to be reiterated

to us from time to time? The reason is is we forget we forget and and I can easily say that a lot of part a big part of Of this of these podcasts of these shows that I do Is really me exercising the experience right exercising and reminding myself of these truths that these truths matter These principles matter these ideas matter and I and and and if you don't remind yourself you can easily get lost And on my new show of the day you can easily say it sucked back into patterns bad patterns of thinking So let's talk about it guys this never take shit personally never take shit personally Let's say it again never take shit personally How people act Well how they act okay guys how people act what they say and they do is Reflection of them Never you it's who they

are okay, so never take shit personally I'm building into this equation here never take shit personally How people act what they say and do is? Reflection of them never you never you it's who they are and who are they? They are what they say and think that they are Okay, so let's go through this guys I wrote this down in my notes here Never take shit personally how people act what they say and they do is a reflection of them not you It's who they are and who are they they are What they say and think that they are they have programmed themselves this way They have pre-programmed themselves to respond and react in this way They have programmed themselves to behave this way Let me tell you about why I'm talking about today and I'm energized to do so The reason is because as

how people act what they say and they do is a reflection of them not you It's who they are and who are they they are What they say and think that they are they have programmed themselves this way They have pre-programmed themselves to respond and react in this way They have programmed themselves to behave this way Let me tell you about why I'm talking about today and I'm energized to do so The reason is because as I was going to this store I was driving my mini Cooper the mini Cooper right behind me guys this mini mini mini mini mini Cooper, okay It's driving my mini Cooper and you know what you know what I Didn't want I did not want to go over a speed bump okay all right Bapapapapal I had made it I didn't want to go over speed bump guys okay

So I roll around this people not have a fast pace Brother ain't going the fast and then no on on coming cars here guys. I'm a responsible driver Okay, we just idle in through this thing. I just want to just just a quick turn You know just go around it real quick, you know and this guy coming out of Petsmart Okay with his kitty litter in his right hand and his keys in his left hand Jaw drops I could see it and I knew exactly what was coming guys It's one of those moments where you see the future. You're like I've seen this before I know exactly what comes next in this episode. I know exactly what's gonna happen next, okay? So I'm here picture me guys driving through the parking lot no on-coming cars me I'll in a round a little speed bump here,

okay Man is getting walking towards the curb. He's probably about two feet from the two or maybe three feet from the curb Okay, just got there sees me Kitty litter in the right hand keys in the left jaw drops. He's offended guys He is in Ranged he is angry guys He has been provoked and I knew exactly what was coming up next. I knew it. I knew it I knew it. I just rolled right by him. I picked out a parking spot And I knew I was gonna get the wrath of this dude somehow some way So he jumps in his car and I I back into this spot here and I'm coming out walking out of my spot And he rolls around guys he rolls around I Know this is gonna sound like I'm being like like demeaning of this individual But it just

adds to just I'm just gonna say it guys He was rolling in the Saturn, okay? I don't even know the making the model guys. I mean, I just don't know no Saturn's But I know that they don't make him no more, okay? And so he rolls up and it's just like this teal green and He just wrote his windows already down. I know I'm gonna get a chewing out guys I know I'm gonna get a chewing out and you know, he just leans into me goes You and you think that you should drive a nice car It's a mini Cooper dude. Yeah, it's it's it's a rare one. It's like an anniversary one They only made like one of five five hundred of them in North America. Yeah Still just a mini Cooper bro He's just like you just think since you drive a nice

chewing out guys I know I'm gonna get a chewing out and you know, he just leans into me goes You and you think that you should drive a nice car It's a mini Cooper dude. Yeah, it's it's it's a rare one. It's like an anniversary one They only made like one of five five hundred of them in North America. Yeah Still just a mini Cooper bro He's just like you just think since you drive a nice car and you can do this Do these types of things and be unsafe on the on the road in you and I'm just like bro like literally guys Literally guys. I'm all about the good juju, okay? So I literally looked at him and my glasses. I probably should have taken my glasses off So you could see my eyes because the eyes tell more You know, I had

these I had these glasses on like this right like this guy so you can't can't see him when I'm you know My eyes tell right and so I'm just I sit there and I stare at him and I go bro I'm not about the bad energy. I'm not about bad juju my bad apologize. I know I went around it man and Like something like that pretty much like that guys, okay? Pretty much like that Glasses off You know what he ends up saying to me he goes well, you know that fuck you Fuck you Just like bro man. I apologized What do you want me to do? And so I did not want him to let me to ruin my juju to ruin my juju to ruin this moment of life you see this man guys this man He pets programmed himself or he has

allowed himself to be programmed in a way in which this type of thing Triggered him to the point of action in which he needed it was essential for him to let me know how angry He was with my behavior and the expectations of that were placed on me unbeknownst to me by him On how individuals should act and drive and Even insured that I felt bad or try to make me feel bad by saying fuck you Because this is not anything to do with me. Yes. Yes, okay I added to the beginning of the equation. I I don't through a speed bump May copa may copa may a maximum copa guys. I fucked up, okay? I fucked up. I drove through it. Okay? Okay? But man, I'm telling you I don't take that shit seriously. I'm talking about it now because this brother I'm telling

you man if you're listening out there and I know you're not But if you're out there and you're listening to this message man. I love you, dude. I love you bro Come back come back to the world The world does not need enough of that world already has enough of that negative energy bro You see they have programmed themselves this way they have allowed themselves to be programmed as well Everyone has internal narratives guys things they tell themselves about themselves Things that they tell themselves about the world and the people around them they take are they have these internal narratives And unfortunately those narratives are really limited and Really narrow minded if their narratives are mostly coming from the mainstream mocking bird media, right? Okay, so that we can go on talk about that for a long time But here's the point guys learn not

programmed as well Everyone has internal narratives guys things they tell themselves about themselves Things that they tell themselves about the world and the people around them they take are they have these internal narratives And unfortunately those narratives are really limited and Really narrow minded if their narratives are mostly coming from the mainstream mocking bird media, right? Okay, so that we can go on talk about that for a long time But here's the point guys learn not to care about what people say you're thinking about you We've already talked about this before why not give them a fuck about what people think or say about you is one of the best ways to live Just guys learn Learn in every instance in every circumstance of life. I just had one I had a guy a cost me and his green till green Saturn guys, okay? Told

me to fuck you because I was driving on the speed bump guys look learn not to care learn in every experience Learn not to care especially if they're just going on that negative juju on that negative energy guys You don't need any of that go away run away from that shit learn not to care about what people say or think about you Because not that they really know anything about you anyway They don't know who you is that man today certainly not know who I am Not that I'm somebody, but he doesn't know why I mean he doesn't know where I'm from He doesn't know where I'm come where where my logic comes from them my thinking my worldview how was raised my you know my spiritual life my faith life my My my aesthetic life my married life my kids life my husband's life

my my my Vot what? He knows nothing about me He knows nothing about me and so nothing that comes out of his mouth Nothing that comes out of a critics mouth especially if you guys got anybody in your life that one spread that bad juju Now they don't know nothing about you they know nothing about you really So don't worry about them everyone battles themselves and their own bad behavior Everyone has a racket as one of my colleagues used to say Mike my costume he used to say this he used to say everyone has a racket and that they and this racket goes into autopilot From time to time. It's it's the racket. It's the internal narrative that they tell themselves when they know that they need to be patient, but instead They go they pop off right when they know they should forgive and

instead they just you know dig a little bit deeper in In the spleen, you know when you know that you should engage and be assertive, but instead you slink away You know when you know when you should be honest and instead you the internal racket tells yeah, it's all right I don't need to say I can say the half truth here some shit like that You see these conflicting behaviors in all people are constantly in action and often people feel self-defeated because One they once again caved to their car on behaviors and not the better side of themselves You see these internal narratives are what people program into themselves and they repeat it over and over and over and over and over again It becomes who they are right, but don't get caught up in that game and simply recognize That they whoever they are

these conflicting behaviors in all people are constantly in action and often people feel self-defeated because One they once again caved to their car on behaviors and not the better side of themselves You see these internal narratives are what people program into themselves and they repeat it over and over and over and over and over again It becomes who they are right, but don't get caught up in that game and simply recognize That they whoever they are especially if they're spreading that bad juju guys Whoever they are they are just as fucked up as you are in the inside and frankly you don't know jack shit about that person and they don't know jack shit about you Stop trying to have everyone try to understand you Your job isn't to convince people of anything your job isn't to convince them you simply can't frankly you can't

you need to leave that up to the Lord guys Right, I could not convince this guy trust me. I could not convince this man that I had in my position That I felt like I was in no harming it nothing in nothing and nothing and I was just doing a little diddly around people like it's not my job to Convincibe it's not my job to try to have him understand my position like that's one thing that I kills me when I when I when I've seen it and when I see people like Especially car shows and and and this is just because I used to go and I still go to a lot of car shows And I've been around the crowds and I've been around the insecurity sometimes that happens with this much money in one place I've seen it okay and and and

let me be a hundred percent honest like I used to have Those feelings of insecurity when I used to not have what I have what I have now Right I understand that I get it. It's part of humanity, right? But You know when people spend too much time sometimes and conversations and these types of shows Trying to convince people that to help them understand you and who you you know It's just it's just too much guys your job isn't to convince people that your ex or why or Z They don't know Jackson about you anyway. You can't convince them. They've already made a preconceived notion of who you is once they met you Right and you can't certainly change the mind in the moment I certainly couldn't change this guy and they're in the great the green sat on guys I couldn't change his mind

in many cases. You're just getting sucked into the his or her vortex of Unhappiness and that's not a place that you ever want to be I did not want to get sucked into this man's vortex of unhappiness You know when you step out when you step outside your the precious protection of your home guys You're entering the world of rackets Entering the world of rackets a world of hurt you guys have heard me talk about this multiple times that people You most people they're doing is they're just talking through their troubles. They're talking through their trials They're talking through the the pain right they're communicating through their suffering and you say well What does that mean? What it means is that people have been hurt? People have been burnt people have been sometimes burnt to a crisp. They have been slayed Their soul is weak

of hurt you guys have heard me talk about this multiple times that people You most people they're doing is they're just talking through their troubles. They're talking through their trials They're talking through the the pain right they're communicating through their suffering and you say well What does that mean? What it means is that people have been hurt? People have been burnt people have been sometimes burnt to a crisp. They have been slayed Their soul is weak soul is hurting Most people are just communicating through that pain. You just don't know it everyone's fucking suffering guys Right like this guy today This guy today with with with this with this cat litter and it is right hand walking out of pet smart You know keys to his green beat up Saturn Guys this man and okay might sound like I'm being judgmental here But guys I

will tell you he he looked in a moment in just a moment And we all probably look like this in a moment of time, but he looked in that moment like a man defeated He looked like a man defeated You know and and and and and he's just communicating through that pain He's picking up the fucking cat litter guys Know that you can be a self that soothes their pain by either just ignoring them as I did with this guy or Maybe lending a kind word if appropriate, but if people aren't willing to lend a kind word in their moments of pain Talking through or arguing or from this the yelling at me through his pain I just ignored him You could be the self that soothes it, but you know what most of the time it's better just to ignore it never take shit

Personally guys that's today's message and this is something that that Frankly is somewhat anti school is this is certainly something that you don't learn in school Because in in in in school in middle school high school. It's all about validation It's all about being part of the click being part of the group. It's all about knowing people ensuring that people know that you exist and that you have some sort of value Frankly still that way after high school It's all the way to the day you die We are all looking for validation and some semblance of Value in our lives that we are valuable to somebody something Right isn't that what kind of the inner most desire is of the heart But at the end of the day guys never take shit personally from anyone else. It's never you You don't want to know why

You want to know why you should never take shit personally because it's never your problem. You want to know why? Because you're just not that special Thanks for joining me. I was I enjoy talking about this guys It's something you certainly don't learn in school and that's certainly something that is important Guys, I'll do it. I was actually like but share this if you want. I'll see you all the next one. Peace out you all the next one. Peace out