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the only reason let me be abundantly clear the only reason that we have Lambos and that we have iPhones is because a men of passion decided to not give a [ __ ] about what the world said and they built their dreams that's why we have Lambos and iPhones I've built many startups muscle than the fan so bitcoin is exactly at the place that I like to be we're gonna end it right there [Music] alright guys I am jazzed up unsullied and unshowered which means I'm ready to tell you five reasons why not giving a [ __ ] is really the best way to live life let's get into it let's get into it guys this this topic came to me very quickly and the reason is because I sat down for about four hours with a friend of mine and we spent time discussing

his new business opportunity and I love doing this I love sitting down with guys young men young bloods young bucks who are passionate are hungry are ready to grind ready to create something new for themselves and one of the biggest constraints not maybe not constraints but one of the biggest issues that came up during our time together was this idea which kept revealing itself through multiple areas of our conversation whether we're talking about people offs or we're talking about operations or sales of them or marketing or the or the sales pipeline or or or how to deal with customers or rat-like there was always this tinge there was this always this tinge that tainted our conversation and the tinge the taint the issue the the the the thing that was overshadowing a lot of the potential or could be excitement about this side hustle was

the whole idea around caring what other people think other people's opinions and what other people say about you I came into this idea today wanting to discuss this deeply with you guys and I came up with the title of the subtle art of not giving a [ __ ] now I knew that that title had come to me somewhere because I had not created that in my own mind and lo and behold yeah there's a guy who wrote a book called the subtle art of not giving a [ __ ] so that's where I lifted it from so the title was taken from the same author but I'm gonna look look at this at a different vantage point the context the context that I want you to think about today as I talk about the subtle art of not giving a [ __ ] is

three things caring about what people think say or will Ian's thinkers say thinkers say their opinions sometimes their vocalized in what they say that's the context not giving a [ __ ] about what people think about you and not giving the [ __ ] about what people say about you you see this individual this individual is a car fanatic like myself and he recently just bought a Porsche no I've been through a couple of these guys excellent cars amazing cars excellent drivers cars the best cars that you could ever drive on a track and certainly some of the best cars on the planet to drive in manual manual shift 6-speed rev matching thank you GT for Porsche beautiful wonderful experience Porsche was one of the best car brands on the planet period you see he had bought this brand new blue Porsche because he had

Porsche no I've been through a couple of these guys excellent cars amazing cars excellent drivers cars the best cars that you could ever drive on a track and certainly some of the best cars on the planet to drive in manual manual shift 6-speed rev matching thank you GT for Porsche beautiful wonderful experience Porsche was one of the best car brands on the planet period you see he had bought this brand new blue Porsche because he had earned it because he had earned it and it was something that he's wanted for so long but this individual this man has never driven his brand new blue Porsche to his job and I'll tell you why the reason is is because he cares too much about what his employees I want him fellow employees think he cares too much about what his colleagues think he cares too much

about what they'll say he cares too much about what they'll think about him negative positive don't matter bro and this is when I turned to him and this is what I'm gonna turn to you guys and look you straight in the face this is why you'll always be poor this is why you'll always be poor you see poor people care are people who are poor who won't continue to stay poor often care about what other people think about them it holds them down it does not allow them to live the free life they want to live this astounded me as you could probably imagine I was greatly offended number one and number two I was greatly grieved I was greatly grieved how could a man who has spent his hard-earned life working for money to buy his dream car a beautiful blue Porsche and the

brother has never driven it to work in fear and trepidation of the opinions of others that is a [ __ ] travesty if I have ever heard of one let me give you succinctly my friends five reasons why not giving a [ __ ] about what other people say or what other people think about you is the best way to live let's jump right in number one the number one reason why you should not give a [ __ ] about what people say about you or what people think about you is number one it allows you to focus on you your life your goals and who you want to be as opposed to thinking about other people's lives who have no consequence to who you want to be what you want to do where you want to go focus on number one first it is

fascinating and I have been through periods of my personal life where I've been weak I've been weak minded of body and spirit I have been weak in so many ways and I have allowed others to dictate the purpose and flow of my life only to be disappointed number one number two be completely worn out number two because it's not my life someone else is leading it and number three to feel remorse and regret that those years those months those weeks passed by in which I had zero control over who I was where I wanted to be what I wanted to do terrible the number one reason why you should not give a [ __ ] about what other people think about you or say about you is it's a return to focusing on number one who do you want to be what do you want

number three to feel remorse and regret that those years those months those weeks passed by in which I had zero control over who I was where I wanted to be what I wanted to do terrible the number one reason why you should not give a [ __ ] about what other people think about you or say about you is it's a return to focusing on number one who do you want to be what do you want to do with your life where do you want to be what would you like to achieve no one else will ever care about your dreams as much as you no one will ever give two cents two shits about picking up a finger to help you achieve your heinous dream your outlandish goals because they can't conceive of it they don't understand it they won't lift a finger so

why do you care about what they say what are you afraid of number two and I love this do you guys know I'm all about positive energy no bad juju number two there's number two reason of why not giving a [ __ ] about what other people think or say about you is the best way to live is zero negative energy you will get better at bouncing negative energy off your chest off your mind negative energy serves only one purpose to crush kill and destroy you where you sit where you stand negative energy is the I don't even need to say it no bad energy no bad juju when you hear someone saying negative you say brah not for me I'm out dawn I am literally in many occasions literally stood tone a person to his face dude your negative energy I'm not having it

I'm done I'm gone and I just walk away there's no reason ever period listen to me please guys no Pete no time ever in which you should accept willfully overtly negative energy unless you have caused in that negative energy and you now need to deal with it you need to reconcile you need to forgive you need to fix that relationship but if it's negative energy and you haven't been a part of it in their and their their conceiving it on their own they're conjuring up this negative energy on their own I want to blow it all over to you because they think that you're doing this you bro you're just looking at having it think I'll [ __ ] up my day only positive energy you will get better at bouncing off whenever negative energy comes your way it starts putting you in a funk

you start thinking about negative things you start thinking about how to pay him back pay her back or do whatever you want to do Musa Musa whatever you need to do rub your ears calm down take a moment move from the state of emotionality to the state of presence being present hey I'm feeling negative now okay that's not a good thing let's bring it down let's bring it down I don't need this right being present of mind allows you to take control of your energy number three self esteem self care and self motivated that's why you should not care about what other people say your self esteem is so important because your self esteem is how you value yourself do you by yourself highly I would go as far as to say some people probably think I value myself too highly because I'm too capable

it down I don't need this right being present of mind allows you to take control of your energy number three self esteem self care and self motivated that's why you should not care about what other people say your self esteem is so important because your self esteem is how you value yourself do you by yourself highly I would go as far as to say some people probably think I value myself too highly because I'm too capable because I know what I'm capable I know what I could I can do anything I can create any system I can learn anything I'm self-taught I have seen the potential now I haven't seen the upper bounds of my potential but I certainly know what I'm capable of and with that type of self esteem that type of self care you no longer need others to motivate you you

no longer need others to give you their energy you can become self-motivated I am one of the best examples of self motivation I have forced myself every day to rid myself of the negative energy the focusing on other people only focus on me bringing my self-esteem making sure that I'm healthy and to mind body and soul and I have to self motivate myself every day to punch out what I hope to be valuable content for you guys for [ __ ] free because I know that the day that I die I lose my self motivation my self discipline is the day where you I'm where is the day where I literally begin the death knell of my slow march to death right the day that I give up my self motivation the day that I give up my self-discipline to ship every day to work

every day to grind every day towards a goal every day the moment that I stop doing that is the day my soul begins to wilt and I become sludge I become nothing number three reason why not giving a [ __ ] is a better way to live is because you learn to be self-motivated that's it that's it when you're no longer caring about what other people say negative poly don't matter you have to will it yourself from your gut to get out of bed rise from the grave of lethargy rise from the grave of slothfulness rise from the grave of laziness get your [ __ ] together life is [ __ ] waiting actually frankly why life's not waiting for you life's never waiting for you you have to catch up as the world is moving on the number four reason why not giving a

[ __ ] about what other people think or say about you is less decision fatigue I can't believe how many betta ass nom jizz betta ass males are out there who literally fill up their brain with decisions that mean nothing you have a limited amount of decisions that you can effectively make throughout a period of a day when you use up all your decisions in the first 4 hours of your day wondering about what am I gonna wear what shoes am I gonna wear what am I gonna drive how am i hair gonna be what am I gonna dress like how about you like what should I buy all this material [ __ ] look I know and a lot of guys especially in the exotic car world love fancy clothes love fancy bag Louis Vuitton Chanel whatever I don't get it but I get

4 hours of your day wondering about what am I gonna wear what shoes am I gonna wear what am I gonna drive how am i hair gonna be what am I gonna dress like how about you like what should I buy all this material [ __ ] look I know and a lot of guys especially in the exotic car world love fancy clothes love fancy bag Louis Vuitton Chanel whatever I don't get it but I get it you have extra income you have money to spend yeah you're gonna buy Louis Vuitton bags you're gonna buy Chanel bags you're gonna you're gonna buy expensive ass shoes you're gonna buy you know expensive ass shirts that are $400 you like I get it you you got I get it to that point and in that you have expendable money you know what I don't get the amount

of decisions men make on [ __ ] look at me I'm wearing a [ __ ] beat coin shirt I'm unsullied and unshowered I don't care what anyone thinks about me I work in my garage okay there's no ego how can I have an ego why am I gonna waste decisions important decisions on what I'm gonna wear and what I'm what what people think about me so I can present myself cleanly the life is not clean get over yourself life was [ __ ] messy and present yourself to the world while all this shine and he's $400 shirts $1600 jeans $2,000 shoes like $20,000 watches dude some of my best friends have these things I get it man I get it in terms of the expendable income but dude why you spending up precious decision-making time decision energy oh [ __ ] that don't matter

when you care about the what the world thinks about you you make decisions to appease the world what a waste what a waste of time and mental space and number five this is gonna be the hardest hitting I hope the number five reason why you should stop giving a [ __ ] about what other people think about you and what other people say about you is because it increased simply increases your chances of being of being wealthy it simply increases your chances of becoming successful it simply increases your chance of being rich you see poor people will always stay poor because they constantly care about what the world thinks do you know you know poor people wear Gucci Armani Chanel Louis Vuitton whatever yeah I see I see brothers with $1,600 belts but you but you still working out at a slave job I see

brothers with $2,000 shoes but you still slave I see brothers with $600 shirts but you still slave I see guys with $1,600 jeans but you still a slave okay like I know this is an easy example but if you look at Warren Buffett and you look at Bill Gates guys those guys where [ __ ] from Walmart okay when you're a billionaire you don't care like guys the only reason let me be abundantly clear the only reason that we have Lambos and that we have iPhones is because of men of passion decided to not give a [ __ ] about what the world said and they built their dreams that's why we have Lambos and iPhones if Bill Gates if [ __ ] if all the most successful people in the world cared about what the world think or thought about them then we would

the only reason let me be abundantly clear the only reason that we have Lambos and that we have iPhones is because of men of passion decided to not give a [ __ ] about what the world said and they built their dreams that's why we have Lambos and iPhones if Bill Gates if [ __ ] if all the most successful people in the world cared about what the world think or thought about them then we would never have all the luxury items we'd have today it is only because that of men and women who don't give a [ __ ] about what the world thinks is why we have the luxury goods we have today if everyone thought and cared about what everyone else thought then we would all live in a gray world with nothing new and everyone would be the same the five

reasons why you should not care not what the world says or thinks about you is number one allows you to focus number two zero negative energy number three it allows you to learn self motivation number four less decision fatigue and number five only rich people have successfully learned to not care poor people have not learned to don't care that's why they'll always stay poor poor people look good to the world but the poor rich people they laugh at them because they have funny belts and their funny shoes and funny shirts and their hair is combed in the weird way yeah you know why because they don't give a [ __ ] about what you think this is Peter satin and a big corn lamp if you liked this episode please subscribe like smash the like button and share with at least one person yet you

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